First, thank you so much for using this site. I
appreciate the privilege of being a little pointer that may lead you to
something as incredible as your pregnancy.
Before I ever did the first pieces of research or wrote one word for this
site, I had a wish. A humble, simple wish for hopeful women not to suffer.
Back when I was very young, I remember my mother crying, alone in her
She miscarried very early and most people never had a hint she was even
pregnant. She suffered in silence, her tears cut through my being like
they always did. I could never stand to see my mother unhappy or
This set something off, deep inside of me. For the rest of my life, so far,
I have connected so deeply with the pain and suffering of those who have
either been unable to get pregnant or those who lose the baby during any
The pain is so deep. So profound. Such a raw, open, empty and helpless
These beautiful humans, the same type of beings as me, suffering so
greatly. Often in silence. My family, friends, neighbors and fellow humans
in our little family of Earth-ness... I love us. I love you. I am so sorry
for any level of suffering you ever have or will face in your life. The
same goes for your immediate family, friends, co-workers, neighbors,
people in your country and world.
We share the same sun, the same air, the same sky, the same love and the
It is my personal wish and prayer for you to be happy. Genuinely, truly
and deeply happy. Not the same plastic, 1 size fits all smile, tone of
voice and exaggerated movements that we typically mock as happiness - but
whatever that means for you, personally. The things you love and enjoy,
the sounds, the feelings, the people... all of it.
May you be healthy in ways that provide you a life that is "just long
enough" for you. By your terms. If it's 70 or 120, that
A life that has minimal physical and mental suffering. A life that is so
healthy the only pills you need are of your own choosing to supplement your
already good health.
I wish and pray for you to have more joy than you can ever count or
contain. More laughter than you could ever measure. Experiences that let
you learn and grow and smile in wonder for what an incredible life this is
I personally wish for you more strength than necessary for all the
challenging times. So you may meet every challenge, head on and push
forward as many times as necessary for you to get all you desire in this
life and more. Including, of course, you getting pregnant.
I have a belief that in a very general way, there are 2 types of people...
those that know what they want, and those that don't. I
understand the challenge it is in today's society to have the strength and
courage to decide what you want - when the cell phones, televisions, media,
politics and other distractions are so overwhelmingly against that level
of focus and dedication in our lives.
I believe that if you are one of those people that put yourself "out
there" even if you're afraid, unsure or just trying for the first time -
to make those decisions when it suits you... "I want THIS!"
then you should get what you want if you're willing
to work for it.
You are here. That tells me something about you. You woke up
from the haze of televisions, gossip, cell phones and whatnot to say, "HEY!
not only do I want this, but I want to know how can I do it".
I identify with people like you.
I love people like you. I want good things for people like you because I
feel like you deserve it.
All people deserve it in a way, but people like you, take the extra step.
You claim personal responsibility and know there are things you need to do
to get it. You seek out those ways, you follow the steps and yes, YOU
truly deserve it!
It is my personal wish and prayer - for YOU to
get pregnant easily.
May you be blessed with the health, relaxation, playfulness, fertility,
timing, information, practices and circumstances that provide YOU
with a beautiful, healthy pregnant body - resulting in an incredible baby
for you to cherish for the rest of your life.
If for whatever reason this is not your first time trying, it is my
personal wish and prayer that you have so much strength and
focus that additional efforts seem more like a game to you - and instead
of suffering and pain, you feel joy, gratitude, happiness and a sense of
peace in knowing that you are blessed with the option
of trying again. This time, you have more information, more
tips, more resources and you are more relaxed and more prepared than you have
ever been before.
It is my humble wish, my deep and sincere prayer for you to become
pregnant and raise a beautiful family that generates love like a power
plant that nurtures you all, your immediate environment and the world we
Bless your skin, your muscles, your bones, your veins, arteries, every
system in your body. Bless your mind, your spirit, every individual
cell and everything that makes up those cells.
May a loving energy nurture and protect you and your life and all you come
into contact with.
May love and hope and possibility and joy be yours abundantly.
May you always have things to want - but never need for
As I sit here, alone and quietly typing this. I just want to express how
deeply and genuinely this is meant. And by all means, if any piece of this
site speaks to you in a useful way - come back and fuel yourself with it
again and again.
If it is just a sentence, write it out, keep it in your purse. Repeat it
to yourself regularly. Whatever it takes to make your steps a little
easier. That's what this is all about. Not only do I believe in you - but
I believe in your ability to believe in yourself!
Take these tools and use them.
If you know someone in a similar situation, share this site with them.
Let's help each other to help ourselves. It's time for this to really
Bless you. With all the loving care I am capable of generating with my
thoughts and prayers - bless every second of your life and every cell of
your being 1,000 times over.
Let it be so!